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| Introduction: In the Realm of Sexual Pleasure---The Path Is the Destination |
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Part I THE GARDENS OF EARTHLY DELIGHT |
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Ch. 1 The Anatomy of Desire: A Comparative Approach |
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43 | (19) |
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X + X = X + Y: The Anatomy Equation |
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The Erection: A Shared Delight |
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The Fountainhead of Emission |
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Massage, Stroke, and Tickle |
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Ch. 2 Coaxing the Sexual Vibration: Enhancing the Orgasm |
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62 | (23) |
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Orgasms: The Sexual Dance |
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Paths to the Female Orgasm |
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The Electrifying Pleasures of Vibrators |
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Better Orgasms for Better Health |
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Ch. 3 The Genital Gym: Strengthening the Pubococcygeal Muscle |
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For Powerful Pleasures: The PC Muscle Flex |
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Grip, Suck, Hug: Enjoying the Benefits |
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Good Vibrations: Ben Wa Balls |
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Move to the Groove: The Pelvic Swing |
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Ch. 4 Riding the Orgasmic Wave: Male Ejaculation Control |
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94 | (22) |
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The End?: Ejaculation Control Reconsidered |
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An Invitation into Potent Pleasure Secrets |
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To Ejaculate or Not to Ejaculate? |
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Do Not Let Your Spirit Suffer! |
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Cock Rings: For Extra-Pleasurable Playtime |
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Delights of the Prosthetic Penis |
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Ch. 5 Navigating the Sacred River: Female Emissions |
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116 | (13) |
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A Source of Unequaled Pleasure |
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Relaxing into the Pleasure |
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Ch. 6 The Anthems of Anal Sex: From Hygiene to Heavenly Pleasures |
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From Acceptance to Condemnation |
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Anal Taboos: Alleviating Anal Anxieties |
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Lubricants---The Anal Stimulation Imperative |
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Instruments for Blissful Anal Play |
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Cleanliness Begins from Within |
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Targeting the Divine P-Spot |
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Part II PARADISE FOUND: THE SEXUAL CEREMONY |
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Sharing Your Generosity: Initiating |
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Anticipation: The Ceremony Opens |
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Abandon Yourself: The Ceremony Unfolds |
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Satiated Lovers: The Ceremony Closes |
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Ch. 7 The Pleasure Priority: Timing the Ritual |
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161 | (11) |
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Revel in the Ritual Tempo |
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Harder...Softer...Deeper...Faster: Guide Your Lover |
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Ch. 8 Eros and Order: Erecting the Temple |
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The Home as Erotic Temple |
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Frolicking in the Great Outdoors |
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Ch. 9 Ascent to Paradise: Orchestrating the Senses |
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A Pagan Feast for the Eyes |
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Ecstatic Harmonies for the Ears |
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Sex, Drugs, and Alcohol---or Not |
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Ch. 10 The Joy of Play: The Roles of Provider and Receiver |
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190 | (8) |
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Ready & Willing: Tops & Bottoms |
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Part III TRANSCENDENTAL TECHNIQUES |
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Ch. 11 Expanding the Sexual Arena: Implements of Ecstasy |
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200 | (10) |
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Ch. 12 Honor Each Other: Safety |
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210 | (7) |
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Check In with Your Playmate |
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A Final Word on Honoring Each Other |
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Ch. 13 The Touch of a Feather: Erotic Tickling |
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217 | (9) |
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Worship Every Inch of Your Lover's Body |
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Thrilling Chills: Love Bites and Cat Scratches |
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Ch. 14 Pushing the Threshold: Clamps |
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226 | (5) |
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Writhing under the Influence |
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Ch. 15 Some Like It Hot: Temperature Play |
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231 | (4) |
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Ch. 16 Abandon Yourself: Erotic Restraints |
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235 | (43) |
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A Delectable Privilege: Play Responsibly |
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Inner Rhythm: Erotic Hearing Restraint |
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Anticipation: Erotic Sight Restraint |
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Intimate Bonds: Erotic Movement Restraint |
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Before the Revel, Remember |
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Obey!: Erotic Verbal Restraint |
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"Bound" to Be Satisfied: Bondage Cuffs |
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The Shift of Power: A Bondage Session with Cuffs |
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Full Control: Bondage Positions |
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The Ultimate Bond: Sensual Rope Bondage |
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Ch. 17 X Marks the Sweet Spot: Erotic Flagellation |
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278 | (24) |
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The "No" Zones and "Yes, Yes, Yes!" Zones |
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Prime Positions to Better the Pleasure |
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A Proper Warm-Up: Spanking |
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Not Your Headmaster's Spanking Boards! |
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A Flick of the Wrist: Whips, Crops, Floggers, and Cats |
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Supple and Ready to Please: Care of Tools |
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Ch. 18 Back to Reality: Coming Down |
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302 | (2) |
| Afterword: Beyond the Boudoir |
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304 | (2) |
| Bibliography |
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306 | (4) |
| Acknowledgments |
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