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El. knyga: Coping with Critical, Demanding, and Dysfunctional Parents: Powerful Strategies to Help Adult Children Maintain Boundaries and Stay Sane

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  • Išleidimo metai: 01-Nov-2018
  • Leidėjas: New Harbinger Publications
  • Kalba: eng
  • ISBN-13: 9781684030934
  • Formatas: PDF+DRM
  • Išleidimo metai: 01-Nov-2018
  • Leidėjas: New Harbinger Publications
  • Kalba: eng
  • ISBN-13: 9781684030934

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Do you have a parent who is invalidating, critical, demanding, or hateful? In this important and much-needed guide, you’ll learn how to set boundaries; uncover the hidden motives behind your parent’s behavior; put a stop to repetitive, hurtful interactions; and foster healthier relationships.

There’s no sugarcoating it—if you grew up with a parent who made you feel invalidated or unloved as a child, your pain is very real. In some cases, you may decide that you want to remove this parent from your life, and that is a valid choice. But for many people, dealing with a problem parent becomes a necessary part of life, for whatever reason. If you’re one of these people, this book can help.

Written by a psychotherapist and expert in relationships, Coping with Critical, Demanding, and Dysfunctional Parents will help you develop unique assertiveness strategies based on the characteristics of your own family dynamics. You’ll learn powerful communication skills to help you build boundaries and put a stop to your parent’s hurtful behavior. And, most importantly, you’ll learn to advocate for your own needs.

If you’ve “had it up to here” with a parent who makes you feel as though you’re just not good enough, this invaluable guide can help you put an end to toxic interactions while maintaining peace in your family.



Adult children whose parents are invalidating, critical, demanding, or hateful require skills to advocate for their own needs. In this much-needed guide, readers will learn how to employ unique assertiveness strategies based on the characteristics of their own family dynamics; uncover the hidden motives behind their parents’ behavior; put a stop to repetitive, hurtful interactions without cutting off their problem parents; and foster healthier relationships.
Foreword v
Introduction: Your Needs for Warmth and Acceptance 1(8)
Part One What Is Going On?
1 Ways to Understand Your Parents' Behavior
9(26)
2 How Have You Been Responding?
35(18)
3 Gain Perspective by Considering Family History and Circumstances
53(30)
Part Two What Can I Do?
4 Prepare Yourself
83(12)
5 Keep the Logic Straight
95(18)
6 Anticipate the Seventeen Moves They May Make and Plan Your Counter moves
113(36)
7 Bring Significant Others and Siblings on Board
149(18)
Part Three How Do We Shift Toward Warmth and Acceptance?
8 Initiate Constructive Conversations
167(26)
9 Request Specific Changes
193(12)
10 Overcome Habit and Relapse
205(10)
Conclusion: You Can Grow Beyond Your Parents' Limitations 215(10)
Acknowledgments 225(2)
References 227
David M Allen (Author) David M. Allen, MD, is professor emeritus of psychiatry and the former director of psychiatric residency training at the University of Tennessee Health Science Center in Memphis. He is author of the book How Dysfunctional Families Spur Mental Disorders: A Balanced Approach to Resolve Problems and Reconcile Relationships. He has carried out research on personality disorders, is a psychotherapy theorist, and is former associate editor of the Journal of Psychotherapy Integration. He is also author of three books for psychotherapists, as well as numerous journal articles and book chapters.