Prologue: Ending the Unconscious Habits That Hijack Your Business |
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Chapter 1 That Voice In Your Head Does More Damage Than You Realize |
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Our Preoccupation with Self-Worth |
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What Hijacks Our Behavior |
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Recognizing When We Are Triggered |
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20 | (11) |
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Chapter 2 No, It's Not Just Your Personality |
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We Learned to Behave This Way |
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31 | (7) |
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What Matters More Than Our Ego |
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38 | (9) |
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Correcting Our Behaviors Before They Happen |
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Chapter 3 Workplace Politics Are Your Fault Too |
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My Reactions Create Our Dysfunction |
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How and Why We Stop Trusting |
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The Dollar Cost of Cultural Breakdowns |
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75 | (8) |
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Chapter 4 Stop Pretending You're Not Vulnerable |
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The Importance of Emotional Safety |
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83 | (8) |
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The Power of Vulnerability and Empathy |
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91 | (5) |
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How to Create a Safe Space |
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96 | (9) |
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Chapter 5 You're Not Really Listening, Are You? |
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The Toxic Habit of Being Right |
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105 | (8) |
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Reversing Downward Spirals |
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113 | (9) |
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Creating Constructive Communication |
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122 | (9) |
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Chapter 4 Your Ego Loves An Enemy |
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The Destructive Effects of the "Offensive" Ego |
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131 | (9) |
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Taking Back Our Creative Power |
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Chapter 7 We Can't Talk About "That" (Meet Amy Anuk) |
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Our Egosystem's Biases and Blind Spots |
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Our Behavioral Patterns Shape the Course of Our Life |
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159 | (7) |
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The "How" Makes the "What" Possible |
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166 | (11) |
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Chapter 8 "Those" People Have Something Important To Teach You |
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Even the Boss Feels Powerless |
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Taking Responsibility for My Part, No Matter What |
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183 | (7) |
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A Rock Can Change the Course of a River |
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190 | (13) |
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Chapter 9 Tell Me Again, What Gets You Up In The Morning? |
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The Inspiration of a Noble Goal |
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The Power of Commitment in the Face of Failure |
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210 | (11) |
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Chapter 10 Why It All Matters |
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Working on Your Ego Is the Highest Act of Leadership |
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Acknowledgments |
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235 | (4) |
Index |
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About The Authors |
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