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Helping Couples on the Brink of Divorce: Discernment Counseling for Troubled Relationships [Minkštas viršelis]

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  • Formatas: Paperback / softback, 229 pages, aukštis x plotis: 254x178 mm
  • Išleidimo metai: 21-Mar-2023
  • Leidėjas: American Psychological Association
  • ISBN-10: 1433842696
  • ISBN-13: 9781433842696
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  • Formatas: Paperback / softback, 229 pages, aukštis x plotis: 254x178 mm
  • Išleidimo metai: 21-Mar-2023
  • Leidėjas: American Psychological Association
  • ISBN-10: 1433842696
  • ISBN-13: 9781433842696
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This book presents a five-session protocol for distressed couples to learn about what has happened to their relationship. New in paperback.


New in paperback, this book presents a five-session protocol for distressed couples to learn about what has happened to their relationship and each person’s contributions to the problems, with the goal of clarifying a direction for their marriage.

Therapists and counselors can find themselves at an impasse when working with “mixed-agenda” couples—where one partner is considering divorce, while the other wants to preserve the marriage and start therapy. Such couples are a common and difficult challenge in clinical practice. To help confirm each partner’s agenda before taking decisive steps toward either reconciliation or divorce, this book presents a richly-illustrated protocol called discernment counseling, for helping couples understand what has happened to their relationship and each person’s contributions to the problems. The goal is to gain clarity and confidence about a direction for their marriage. Discernment counseling generally ends with a decision to divorce or a decision to engage in six months of couples therapy. Chapters cover special topics such as affairs and when one spouse has “fallen out of love” with the other.
 
Discernment counseling features individual conversations with the leaning-in and leaning-out spouse, along with carefully orchestrated times for each partner to share what they learned in the individual conversations. A special feature of the protocol is its short-term nature, with an initial commitment to just one session and a decision each time whether to do another session, up to five. This strategy invites both spouses to keep making choices to continue the work.

Recenzijos

2 7 Choice Outstanding Academic Title. This work is an exceptionally valuable and resourceful manual in that it elucidates protocols to be followed for each of the choices available to couples. It is strongly recommended for all professionals and students working with couples.   (Choice) Students and lay professionals alike will find this resource very useful in how they view troubled relationships. (PsycCRITIQUES) Doherty and Harris have produced a masterful protocol for use with couples where one partner is ambivalent about divorcing and the other is not: discernment counseling. These skilled clinicians guide marriage therapists in a very practical overview of the one-to-five sessions of discernment counseling to help couples decide whether to divorce, do couples therapy, or stay the same. This invaluable book will help couples therapists avoid ineffective marriage counseling and unnecessary divorce. - Susan H. McDaniel, PhD, Dr. Laurie Sands Distinguished Professor of Families & Health; Director, Institute for the Family, Department of Psychiatry; Associate Chair, Department of Family Medicine, University of Rochester Medical Center, Rochester, NY Not all partners in conflict enter couples therapy for the same purpose. Doherty and Harris show how to use discernment counseling to create a common therapeutic focus when mixed-agenda couples enter treatment. Bottom line: Working with couples without discernment is a waste of time. - Jon Carlson, PsyD, EdD, ABPP, Distinguished Professor, Adler University, Chicago, IL, and coeditor of The SAGE Encyclopedia of Marriage, Family, and Couples Counseling

Foreword vii
Judge Bruce Peterson
Introduction 3(4)
I Overview, Theory, and Research
7(34)
Chapter 1 Background and Overview of Discernment Counseling
9(14)
Chapter 2 Theory and Research
23(18)
II Methods of Discernment Counseling
41(92)
Chapter 3 Communicating With Clients Before Starting Discernment Counseling
43(10)
Chapter 4 First Session Protocol
53(16)
Chapter 5 Middle Sessions Protocol
69(18)
Chapter 6 Handling Transitions to Path 3: Couples Therapy
87(22)
Chapter 7 Handling Transitions to Path 2: Divorce
109(16)
Chapter 8 Handling Transitions to Path Is Status Quo
125(8)
III Common Scenarios in Discernment Counseling
133(44)
Chapter 9 When One Partner Has an Affair
135(14)
Chapter 10 When the Feelings Are Gone
149(10)
Chapter 11 When Neither One Is Leaning In
159(8)
Chapter 12 Shifting From Couples Therapy to Discernment Counseling
167(10)
IV Implementing Discernment Counseling in Your Practice
177(26)
Chapter 13 Learning Discernment Counseling
179(10)
Chapter 14 Managing Critical Incidents in Discernment Counseling
189(8)
Chapter 15 How to Build a Practice in Discernment Counseling
197(6)
Appendix: Applications for Lawyers, Mediators, and Clergy 203(14)
References 217(6)
Index 223(6)
About the Authors 229
William J. Doherty, PhD, is a professor in the Department of Family Social Science at the University of Minnesota, where he directs the Minnesota Couples on the Brink Project and the Citizen Professional Center. With his daughter Elizabeth Doherty Thomas, he directs The Doherty Relationship Institute. Dr. Doherty has authored 5 books for professionals and the lay public. He has served as president of the National Council on Family Relations and received the Significant Contribution to the Field of Marriage and Family Therapy Award from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy. In addition to his clinical research and teaching, he focuses on community initiatives aimed at democratic renewal and positive social change.

Steven M. Harris, PhD, LMFT, is a professor and director of the Couple and Family Therapy Program at the University of Minnesota. He has been practicing as a marriage and family therapist for more than 2 years. He also serves as associate director of the Minnesota Couples on the Brink Project. He is involved in a variety of research projects, including the National Divorce Decision-Making Project, and in clinical practice with couples on the brink of divorce. Dr. Harris is the author of more than 5 peer-reviewed articles and book chapters and is the coauthor of Seven Letters That Will Bring You Closer to Your College Student and Should I Try to Work It Out?