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Lust for Love: Rekindling Intimacy and Passion in Your Relationship [Kietas viršelis]

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  • Formatas: Hardback, 304 pages, aukštis x plotis x storis: 238x167x27 mm, weight: 492 g
  • Išleidimo metai: 17-May-2018
  • Leidėjas: Center Street
  • ISBN-10: 1478992786
  • ISBN-13: 9781478992783
Kitos knygos pagal šią temą:
  • Formatas: Hardback, 304 pages, aukštis x plotis x storis: 238x167x27 mm, weight: 492 g
  • Išleidimo metai: 17-May-2018
  • Leidėjas: Center Street
  • ISBN-10: 1478992786
  • ISBN-13: 9781478992783
Kitos knygos pagal šią temą:
An unlikely pair of voices-the world's most recognizable beauty icon and "America's rabbi"-comes together to diagnose how meaningful, passionate sex is on the decline in Western culture, and what is necessary to save it.

Sex is dying in America. Inundated with sex and starved for it, obsessed with it yet clueless about it, we are slowly forgetting how to make love. The crisis of modern sexuality is seen in high divorce rates, in the degradation of sexuality through pornography, and tasteless displays of empty, counterfeit erotica. Most of all, it's seen in sexless marriages and platonic relationships where cybersex has become more addictive than the real thing. Sex has become so trivialized, coarsened, and vulgarized that couples no longer feel its pull. The once powerful and irresistible magnetism of sex is being diluted and drained.

The authors propose replacing the 1960s' sexual revolution with a new sensual revolution, a rediscovery of intimacy that encourages and ennobles human relationships, elevates healthy lust, and gets us from looking up from the glowing screens of our smartphones to the people around us, most especially the people we love the most.

LUST FOR LOVE embraces the idea that what our most important relationships need most is lust. It is necessary to rediscover what's sexy again, how to bring back romance, and to understand that in addition to love, we need lust to repair our unfulfilling sex lives and broken relationships. LUST FOR LOVE proposes a return to what lovemaking was always meant to be: a desire to know and experience another person in the deepest possible way.
Acknowledgments xiii
Preface xv
Pamela Anderson
Preface xxi
Rabbi Shmuley Boteach
Part One HAVE WE FORGOTTEN HOW TO MAKE LOVE?
Chapter 1 The Art of Intimacy
3(7)
Chapter 2 Our Deep Need
10(8)
Chapter 3 A Sexual Famine
18(7)
Chapter 4 Failure of the Sexual Revolution
25(13)
Chapter 5 Is Porn for Losers?
38(10)
Chapter 6 Loosening Sexual Tension
48(11)
Part Two WHAT HAPPENED TO EROTIC LOVE?
Chapter 7 Too Much of a Good Thing
59(13)
Chapter 8 Becoming Sexual Experts
72(7)
Chapter 9 Goal-Oriented Sex
79(6)
Chapter 10 Eating Ourselves to Death
85(8)
Part Three THE FEMININE EROTIC MIND
Chapter 11 Captured by Desire
93(15)
Chapter 12 Erotic Fantasy
108(5)
Chapter 13 Passionate Connectedness
113(7)
Chapter 14 Give a Woman What She Wants
120(9)
Part Four THE MASCULINE EROTIC MIND
Chapter 15 Needing To Be Needed
129(9)
Chapter 16 Masculine Duality
138(10)
Chapter 17 Loss of Feminine Love
148(9)
Chapter 18 Cheating: It's Not All About Sex
157(14)
Part Five PILLARS OF EROTICISM
Chapter 19 Unavailability
171(15)
Chapter 20 Mystery
186(9)
Chapter 21 Forbiddenness
195(12)
Chapter 22 Vertical Discovery
207(16)
Part Six PUTTING PASSION INTO PRACTICE
Learning to Make Love
223(4)
Building Connection
227(3)
Being Jealous
230(2)
Channeling Your Femininity
232(4)
Channeling Your Masculinity
236(4)
Parents Are Still Lovers
240(4)
Practicing Passionate Connectedness
244(7)
Conclusion 251(2)
Endnotes 253(10)
Index 263(10)
About the Authors 273
PAMELA ANDERSON is an activist, author, mother, actress, and model. A sexual icon since her youth, she is a frequent critic of contemporary cultural attitudes toward sex. A devoted vegan, Anderson has spent her life campaigning and advocating for human and animal rights and for environmental justice. She lives in Los Angeles, California.

RABBI SHMULEY BOTEACH, whom The Washington Post and Newsweek call "the most famous Rabbi in America," stands among the world's most recognizable and passionate voices on values, spirituality, and relationships. He is the international bestselling author of over thirty books, including Kosher Sex. The Winner of the London Times Preacher of the Year Competition, the National Fatherhood Award, and with thirty years' experience in relationships counseling, "America's Rabbi" lives in the New York metropolitan area with his wife and nine children.