| About This Resource |
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| Acknowledgments |
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| Wanted!!!! Stories with Heart |
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| SECTION 1 Conflict-Resolution Activities for Educators |
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3 | (1) |
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4 | (1) |
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My Anger Triggers, Traps, 'n Traumas Log |
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5 | (1) |
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6 | (1) |
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Pushing Aside Aggressive Behavior |
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7 | (1) |
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8 | (1) |
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Getting Out of Your Comfort Zone |
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9 | (1) |
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10 | (1) |
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Are You a Pushover, Pushy, or Just-About-Right Conflict Solver? |
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11 | (1) |
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What They Didn't Teach Me in School! |
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12 | (1) |
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13 | (2) |
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Secrets That Shouldn't be Kept About Me! |
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15 | (2) |
| SECTION 2 Building the Groundwork for Conflict Resolution |
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| A Positive Identity |
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Play My Positive Tape Again! (accepting limitations) |
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19 | (3) |
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Tickled Pink! (recognizing what makes us special) |
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22 | (2) |
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Exclamations! (giving and receiving peer compliments) |
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24 | (1) |
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Balloosters (giving and receiving peer compliments) |
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24 | (1) |
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WOW (giving and receiving peer compliments) |
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24 | (5) |
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Precious Petals (naming positive strengths) |
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29 | (1) |
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What Makes me Pop! (naming positive strengths) |
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29 | (1) |
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Tune in to Our Top Hits! (naming positive strengths) |
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29 | (1) |
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I'm a Hit Record! (naming positive strengths) |
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29 | (7) |
| Belonging and Cooperation |
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Snowflakes (learning the uniqueness of each child and the importance of sticking together) |
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36 | (2) |
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Wall of Love (feeling a sense of community in your school) |
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38 | (1) |
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We are Family! (feeling a sense of community in your school) |
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38 | (1) |
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A Loving Visualization (picturing loving qualities) |
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38 | (5) |
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Call me When You Need a Friend (learning how to be a friend) |
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43 | (2) |
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Paint with Love (making others feel special) |
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45 | (2) |
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Stars (making others feel special) |
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47 | (2) |
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Juggling for Joy (experiencing belonging and cooperation in a noncompetitive game) |
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49 | (3) |
| Complimenting Special People in Our Lives |
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You're a Nacho Above (recognizing the special people in our lives) |
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52 | (1) |
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My Loot Bag of Goodies (recognizing the special people in our lives) |
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52 | (4) |
| Appreciating Differences Among People |
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Surfing the Net (appreciating others' backgrounds) |
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56 | (2) |
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Sticky Situations (developing awareness of prejudice and stereotyping) |
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58 | (2) |
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Throw It Out! (developing awareness of prejudice and stereotyping) |
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60 | (2) |
| Recognizing Our Values |
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Real Value (recognizing the importance of our values) |
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62 | (2) |
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Put Your Best Foot Forward (upholding values when challenged) |
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64 | (1) |
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My Values Coat of Arms (upholding values when challenged) |
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64 | (3) |
| Setting Goals |
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The Dream Ranch (encouraging dreams) |
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67 | (1) |
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Clouds to Stars (turning dreams to goals) |
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67 | (4) |
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Compute Your Goals (learning the steps of goal setting) |
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71 | (1) |
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How Do You Compute? (learning the steps of goal setting) |
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72 | (1) |
| SECTION 3 Conflict-Resolution Activities for Your Classroom |
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| Our Feelings |
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Directions and Conflict-Solving Quiz |
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75 | (2) |
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Roller Coaster Days (handling our emotional ups and downs) |
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77 | (1) |
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Can You Crack This Case? (handling our emotional ups and downs) |
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77 | (1) |
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Color Me (handling our emotional ups and downs) |
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77 | (1) |
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Color My Feelings (handling our emotional ups and downs) |
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77 | (6) |
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Windows of Feelings (acknowledging our feelings) |
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83 | (1) |
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Key to My Feelings (acknowledging our feelings) |
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83 | (1) |
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Wilbert's ``Many Moods'' Stick Puppets |
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83 | (5) |
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My Butterfly Book of Feelings (acknowledging our feelings) |
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88 | (2) |
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Stormy and Smiley (expressing openly and honestly) |
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90 | (2) |
| Anger |
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Steamed Scene (feeling angry is natural) |
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92 | (2) |
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Hot BBQ Sizzler-TLC Recipe (cooling down angry feelings) |
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94 | (3) |
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Brush Up on TLC (cooling down angry feelings) |
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97 | (1) |
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Brush it off? No Way! (cooling down angry feelings) |
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97 | (3) |
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Smart Signals (cooling down angry feelings) |
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100 | (2) |
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I'm a Hit! (handling angry feelings) |
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102 | (3) |
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Smooth Solutions (handling angry feelings) |
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105 | (2) |
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Chill! (learning when to use avoidance in a conflict) |
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107 | (2) |
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My Triggers 'n Traps (learning your anger patterns) |
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109 | (1) |
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My Triggers 'n Traps Log (knowing your anger patterns) |
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109 | (4) |
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We're Hot Stuff! (at Cooling Down) (changing your anger patterns) |
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113 | (2) |
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Follow the Yellow Brick Road (calming down when angry) |
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115 | (2) |
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Put a Lid on Your Anger! (realizing we may hurt other if anger is not cooled down) |
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117 | (1) |
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I-Screamers (realizing we may hurt others if anger is not cooled down) |
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117 | (1) |
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Bubble Trouble (realizing we may hurt others if anger is not cooled down) |
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117 | (5) |
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The Anger Escalator (recognizing the escalating stages of anger) |
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122 | (2) |
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Snowballs (recognizing the escalating stages of anger) |
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124 | (2) |
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Wilbert's Crumby Cookies (controlling our anger) |
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126 | (2) |
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Tasty Toppings (sayings to have ready when angry) |
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128 | (3) |
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Don't Get Tickled! (reviewing anger concepts) |
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131 | (2) |
| Problem Solving |
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Just Picture It! (learning the steps of brainstorming) |
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133 | (3) |
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Potattle Chips (learning to solve our own problems) |
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136 | (3) |
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Good Stuff! (solving lateral-thinking problems) |
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139 | (3) |
| Looking at a Problem from Another's Point of View |
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Put Yourself in Somebody Else's Shoes (looking at a problem from other viewpoints) |
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142 | (2) |
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Spaghetti! Spaghetti! (learning to think critically and weight both sides) |
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144 | (2) |
| Empathy |
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My Magic Glasses (becoming aware of the feelings others experience) |
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146 | (1) |
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Here are My Magic Glasses (becoming aware of the feelings other experience) |
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146 | (1) |
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The Sad Heart (becoming aware of the feelings others experience) |
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146 | (1) |
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My Heart Pattern (becoming aware of the feelings others experience) |
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146 | (6) |
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My Feelings Run Deep (putting self in place of someone hurt) |
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152 | (1) |
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Here's How My Feelings Run Deep (putting self in place of someone hurt) |
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152 | (4) |
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Oops! Wilbert Put His Foot in His Mouth (putting self in place of someone hurt) |
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156 | (3) |
| Communicating the Best We Can |
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My Listening Mirror (listening reflectively) |
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159 | (2) |
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Deluxe Pizza Toppings (communicating with winning sayings in a conflict) |
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161 | (3) |
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Hey, Stop Being Pushy! (asserting self instead of acting aggressively) |
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164 | (3) |
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Twisted Tales (becoming aware of communication mix-ups) |
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167 | (3) |
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Hey! What's Really Going On? (learning the present issue may be haunted by the past) |
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170 | (2) |
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Scrambled Eggs (practicing listening in a conflict) |
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172 | (2) |
| Types of Conflicts |
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Mumbo Jumbo Soup (recognizing inner conflicts) |
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174 | (3) |
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A Geeky Play (recognizing inner conflicts) |
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177 | (2) |
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Conflict Candy Bar (standing by our values in inner conflicts) |
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179 | (4) |
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A Rainbow of Peace (learning the relationship of inner peace to global peace) |
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183 | (3) |
| Solving Conflicts so Both Feel Like Winners |
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TLC Poster (using the TLC approach) |
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186 | (1) |
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Wilbert's Restaurant (practicing the TLC approach) |
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186 | (1) |
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Sticky Situation Skit: Eating with Relish! |
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186 | (1) |
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Sticky Situation Skit: Mad Mo |
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186 | (1) |
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Sticky Situation Skit: Wilbert's in a Pickle |
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186 | (8) |
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Cell talk (using the TLC approach) |
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194 | (2) |
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``Peace'' Together Puzzling Conflicts (handling conflicts with others) |
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196 | (2) |
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My Own CD! (describing and assessing a recent conflict) |
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198 | (2) |
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Paint the Best Approach to Conflict Solving (learning conflict styles) |
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200 | (2) |
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I'm Out of This World Solving Conflicts Space Log |
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202 | (1) |
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Star Points of Mediating (compiling a conflict-solving log) |
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202 | (1) |
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We're Out of This World Solving Conflicts (compiling a conflict-solving log) |
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202 | (1) |
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Peer mediator Log (compiling a conflict-solving log) |
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202 | (1) |
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My Stellar Idea/Give Me Some Space (compiling a conflict-solving log) |
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202 | (1) |
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Conflict-Solver Star Badge (compiling a conflict-solving log) |
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202 | (1) |
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My Awesome Space Trip (compiling a conflict-solving log) |
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202 | (10) |
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Triangles of Trust (learning the steps in mediating a conflict) |
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212 | (2) |
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Let's Party! (reviewing conflict-solving concepts) |
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214 | (3) |
| Creating a Ripple Effect with Acts of Kindness |
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My Peace Ripplers Book (learning how peace ripples) |
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217 | (1) |
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Peace Ripplers (starting a ripple effect with small acts of kindness to others) |
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217 | (4) |
| SECTION 4 Conflict-Resolution Activities for Your School |
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| Bully Busters! |
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Teachers' ``Bully Busters!'' |
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``Bully Busters!'' Poster |
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| Conflict-Resolution Celebration |
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A Conflict-Resolution Celebration |
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Fun Ideas for Your Conflict-Resolution Celebration |
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Music for Your Conflict-Resolution Celebration |
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Conflict-Resolution Drama Presentation |
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| Involving Everyone in the Child's Life |
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Our Home Conflict-Resolution Menu |
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Please Come to Our Conflict-Resolution Celebration |
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Please Come to Our ``Conflict Solving with Heart'' Celebration |
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Good News Network Calendar |
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Good News Network Monthly Theme Ideas |
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| Class Meetings Help Resolve Conflicts |
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Planning Our Class Meetings |
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| Reading Selections |
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