Preface viii Suzanne Shepherd Introduction x Larry Silverberg SECTION ONE • PRELIMINARY WORK setting the stage 2(4) about emotional preparation 6(4) prelude to emotional preparation 10(6) getting ready 16(4) SECTION TWO • EMOTIONAL PREPARATION THE EXERCISES coming home to be alone 20(18) coming home to do 38(12) roommates 50(13) bringing back the activity 63(14) both partners prepare 77(12) its about the partner 89(12) the highest stakes 101(12) Afterword whats next! 113
