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| PART I SOCIAL SKILLS THAT ARE HELPFUL AND NECESSARY |
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Skill 1 Being a Good Listener Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #1: Introduction to Good Listening |
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Worksheet #2: Identifying a Good Listener |
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Worksheet #3: How to Be a Good Listener |
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Worksheet #4: Important Listening Situations |
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Worksheet #5: What Problems Do You See? |
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Worksheet #6: Skit Revisited-Identifying the Listening Skills |
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Skill 2 Understanding Another's Point of View Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #7: Introduction to a Different Viewpoint |
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Worksheet #8: Indentifying Different Points of View |
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Worksheet #9: What's the Basis for This Point of View? |
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Worksheet #10: Changing Your Situation, Changing Your Opinion |
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Worksheet #11: What Are Your Opinions? |
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Worksheet #12: Someone Who Disagrees With Me |
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Skill 3 Being Able to Communicate Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #13: What Is Communication? |
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Worksheet #14: Communication through Behavior |
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Worksheet #15: Communication through Expressions |
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Worksheet #17: Practice Your Communication Skills |
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Worksheet #18: Appropriate vs. Inappropriate Communication |
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Skill 4 Negotiating or Compromising Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #19: Negotiation as a Social Skill |
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Worksheet #20: Why You Can't Always Have Your Own Way |
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Worksheet #21: Situations to Negotiate |
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Worksheet #22: Things That Aren't Negotiable |
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Worksheet #23: Practice Negotiating |
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Skill 5 Assessing a Situation Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #24: What's Going on Here? |
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Worksheet #25: Assessing the Same Situation Differently |
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Worksheet #26: What's Your Call? |
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Worksheet #27: How Tense Would This Situation Make Someone? |
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Worksheet #28: Timing and Moods |
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Worksheet #29: An Appropriate Reaction |
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Skill 6 "Reading" Other People Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #30: A New Kind of Reading |
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Worksheet #31: Facial Expressions |
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Worksheet #32: Tone of Voice |
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Worksheet #33: Body Language |
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Skill 7 Making a Good Impression Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #37: What Is a Good Impression? |
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Worksheet #38: Your Appearance |
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Worksheet #39: Your Attitude |
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Worksheet #40: Getting Prepared |
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Worksheet #41: Asking Appropriate Questions |
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Skill 8 Controlling Your Emotions Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #42: Why Should We Control Our Emotions? |
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Worksheet #43: First Reaction |
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Worksheet #44: What Triggers Your Emotions? |
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Worksheet #45: Controlling What You Show |
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Worksheet #46: Alternative Reactions |
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Skill 9 Revealing Yourself to Others Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #47: Mysterious or Just Plain Quiet? |
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Worksheet #48: Why Tell About Yourself? |
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Worksheet #49: Revealing Things to Be Polite |
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Worksheet #50: Revealing Things to Make Conversation |
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Worksheet #51: Finding a Common Point with Others |
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Worksheet #52: Making a Selective Impression |
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Worksheet #53: Take a Risk, Open Up |
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Skill 10 Working with Others Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #54: Sharing a Job |
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Worksheet #55: Working as a Team |
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Worksheet #56: Cooperating with Authority |
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Worksheet #57: Brainstorming |
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Worksheet #58: Carrying Out Your Responsibilities |
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Skill 11 Making Others Feel Comfortable Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #60: Embarrassing Moments for Others |
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Worksheet #61: Helping Others Through Stressfull or Uncomfortable Situations |
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Worksheet #62: Ordinary Times to Be Outgoing |
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Worksheet #63: Things to Beware Of! |
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Skill 12 Making and Keeping Friends Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #64: My Good Friend? |
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Worksheet #65: Is This a Good Friend? (Part 1) |
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Worksheet #66: Is This a Good Friend? (Part 2) |
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Worksheet #67: Ways to Make Friends |
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Worksheet #68: Are You a Good Friend |
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Skill 13 Standing Up for Your Beliefs Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #69: That's Not Right! |
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Worksheet #70: What Do You Believe In? |
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Worksheet #71: Why Do You Believe That? |
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Worksheet #72: Beliefs and Behavior |
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Worksheet #73: What's the Problem? |
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Skill 14 Having a Good Sense of Humor Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #74: Benefits of a Sense of Humor |
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Worksheet #75: Creating Humor Appropriately |
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Worksheet #76: Easing Tension with Humor |
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Worksheet #77: Laughing WITH, not Laughing AT |
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Worksheet #78: Using Humor to Include Others |
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Skill 15 Using Common Sense Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #79: What's Common About Common Sense? |
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Worksheet #80: Looking for Clues |
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Worksheet #81: Thinking Harder |
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Worksheet #82: Thinking Smarter |
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Worksheet #83: Using Your Common Sense |
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Skill 16 Developing a Good Reputation Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #84: What Others Say About You |
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Worksheet #85: Developing a Reputation |
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Worksheet #86: Misjudging Others |
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Worksheet #87: What's Your Reputation |
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Worksheet #88: What Kind of Reputation Do You Want? |
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Worksheet #89: Changing Your Reputation |
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Skill 17 Reacting Appropriataely to Peer Pressure Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #90: Feeling the Pressure |
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Worksheet #91: Positive and Negative Peer Pressure |
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Worksheet #92: Everybody's Doing It |
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Worksheet #93: Why We Respond to Peers |
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Worksheet #94: When There's a Conflict |
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Worksheet #95: Resisting Negative Pressure |
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Skill 18 Making Good Decisions Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #96: Questions to Ask Yourself |
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Worksheet #97: A Decision-Making Chart |
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Worksheet #98: What Decision Needs to Be Made? |
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Worksheet #99: Trivial vs. Important |
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Worksheet #100: When You Need More Information |
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Worksheet #101: Decisions That Affect Other People |
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Worksheet #102: Head vs. Heart Decisions |
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Skill 19 Viewing Situations Realistically Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #103: Making Realistic Changes |
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Worksheet #104: Improbable or Impossible |
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Worksheet #105: Making Changes for the Better: Habits and Friends |
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Worksheet #106: Making Changes for the Better: Attitudes and Actions |
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Worksheet #107: It Could Happen |
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Skill 20 Being Flexible Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #108: Handling Changes |
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Worksheet #109: Changing Your Plans |
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Worksheet #110: Changing Your Mind |
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Worksheet #111: Being Open to New Things |
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Worksheet #112: Reflecting |
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| PART II SOCIAL SKILLS IN ACTION |
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| SOCIAL SKILLS APPLIED AT HOME |
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Routine Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #1: Getting Along With Parents |
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Worksheet #2: Getting Along With Siblings |
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Worksheet #3: Balancing Responsibilites and Desires |
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Worksheet #4: Helping to Maintain a Supportive Family Environment |
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Worksheet #5: Giving and Taking Within the Family |
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Problems or Unusual Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #6: Handling a Divorce or Family Split |
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Worksheet #7: Intrusions on Privacy |
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Worksheet #8: Changing Roles and Demands |
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Worksheet #9: Dealing With Poor Self-Esteem |
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Worksheet #10: Living With Abusive or Dysfunctional Family Members |
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Enhancing the Family or Home Situation Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #11: Spending Quality Time Together |
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Worksheet #12: Setting Family Goals |
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Worksheet #13: Strengthening Each Other |
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Worksheet #14: Learning About One's Family |
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Worksheet #15: Going Beyond What is Expected of Each Other |
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| SOCIAL SKILLS APPLIED AT SCHOOL |
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Routine Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #16: Getting Along With Teachers or Authority Figures |
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Worksheet #17: Getting Along With Peers |
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Worksheet #18: Handling Competition |
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Worksheet #19: Managing a Social Life |
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Worksheet #20: Asking for Help |
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Problems or Unusual Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #21: Failing Classes |
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Worksheet #22: Discipline Problems |
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Worksheet #23: Intimidation from Other Students |
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Worksheet #24: Feeling Like a Misfit |
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Worksheet #25: Developing a Bad Attitude Toward School |
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Enhancing the School Situation Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #26: Getting Involved in Extra-curricular Activities |
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Worksheet #27: Being Part of a Team |
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Worksheet #28: Putting Forth Extra Effort Towards Excellence |
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Worksheet #29: Helping Others at School |
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Worksheet #30: Demonstrating School Spirit |
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| SOCIAL SKILLS APPLIED AT WORK |
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Routine Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #31: Getting Along With Your Supervisor |
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Worksheet #32: Getting Along Wigh Co-workers |
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Worksheet #33: Understanding the Skills Required for the Job |
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Worksheet #34: Developing Good Work Habits |
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Worksheet #35: Following Instructions |
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Problems or Unusual Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #36: Dealing With an Unfair Boss |
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Worksheet #37: Working With Annoying Co-workers |
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Worksheet #38: Dealing With Complaining Customers |
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Worksheet #39: Lack of Respect from Your Employees |
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Worksheet #40: Bringing Personal Problems to Work |
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Enhancing the Work Situation Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #41: Developing an Excellent Performance Record |
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Worksheet #42: Demonstrating a Good Attitude |
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Worksheet #43: Being Resourceful in Taking Over Other Jobs |
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Worksheet #44: Making the Boss or Business Look Good |
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Worksheet #45: Taking Initiative for Promotion |
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| SOCIAL SKILLS APPLIED WITH PEERS |
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Routine Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #46: Respecting Others as Individuals |
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Worksheet #47: Recognizing the Value of Friendship |
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Worksheet #48: Developing Healthy Relationships With the Opposite Sex |
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Worksheet #49: Taking Advantage of Social Opportunities |
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Worksheet #50: Deciding How Much Influence Others Will Have Over You |
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Problems or Unusual Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #51: Getting involved With People With Problems |
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Worksheet #52: Feeling Outcast |
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Worksheet #53: Dealing With Hatred, Prejudice, Belittlement |
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Worksheet #54: When a Friend Is in Trouble |
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Worksheet #55: Realizing that People and Situations Change |
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Enhancing Social Situations With Peers Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #56: Choosing to Befriend Someone |
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Worksheet #57: Becoming a Good Conversationalist |
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Worksheet #58: Putting Needs of Others First |
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Worksheet #59: Sticking Up for Those Who Need a Hand |
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Worksheet #60: Sharing What Is Important |
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| SOCIAL SKILLS APPLIED IN THE COMMUNITY |
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Routine Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #61: Having Respect for the Property of Others |
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Worksheet #62: Demonstrating Good Manners Towards Others |
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Worksheet #63: Respecting Community Authority Figures |
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Worksheet #64: Being Aware of Local Issues |
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Worksheet #65: Supporting Your Community |
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Problems or Unusual Situations Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #66: Dealing With Community Problems |
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Worksheet #67: Improving the Community's Physical Areas |
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Worksheet #68: Dealing With Annoying People of Areas |
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Worksheet #69: Creating or Maintaining Safe Places of Leisure |
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Worksheet #70: Safety in Your Community |
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Enhancing Life in Your Community Instructor Pages |
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Worksheet #71: Volunteering at Agencies |
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Worksheet #72: Learning About Local Political Groups |
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Worksheet #73: Organizing Community Activities |
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Worksheet #74: Getting Involved in Fund-Raising Causes |
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Worksheet #75: Supporting Efforts to Improve the Community |
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