A revealing account of a three-year therapy journey between a therapist and client, co-authored by them both. It sensitively presents the challenges that an adult survivor of childhood abuse had to overcome, and offers insight for therapists into how creative use of relational models of working paved the way for the client's healing.
I could not ignore the tiny spark of hope that whispered to me that there might be someone with whom I could be vulnerable and real, and that this time they might just not let me down...
This is the story of Alexia and her therapist Kim, and their three-year therapy journey to begin Alexia's path to recovery. Written from both perspectives, it is a powerful and revealing account of a therapist-client relationship.
Together, the authors show the manifold challenges that adult survivors of childhood abuse have to overcome, and offer insight to all therapists on how relational interventions can pave a way to healing.
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A powerful real-life story of how therapy can provide a path from trauma to healing, as told by a therapist and their client
Foreword |
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A Note on the Text |
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Acknowledgments |
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Introduction: The story of a therapeutic journey |
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Alexia writes |
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Kim writes |
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About this book |
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Chapter 1 Our Guiding Model |
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Summary of the DDP principles |
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Chapter 3 Discovering The Russian Doll |
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Chapter 4 Striving For Health: Painted Doll Becomes Real |
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Chapter 5 Finding Roots And Wings |
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Chapter 6 Moving Towards Acceptance And Finding Wobbly Ground |
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Chapter 7 Finding The Baby And Losing Mother |
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Armoured by Loss: The Princess' Tale |
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Chapter 8 Mending The Kintsugi Pot |
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Chapter 9 Bringing Andrew Into The Work |
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Chapter 10 Finding Compassion -- From Shame To Pride |
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Alexia's compassionate letter to herself |
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Kim's compassionate letter to Alexia |
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And so it continues... A final reflection from Alexia |
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Beneath the Mask: A Therapeutic journey |
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References |
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Index |
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Kim S. Golding, CBE, BSc, MSc, D. Clin. Psy. AFBPsS is a clinical psychologist and author. She is a DDP consultant and trainer with interest in developing relational approaches to therapy to help children and adults with experience of developmental trauma. Discovering people's stories together is central to her work.
Alexia Jones is a psychological practitioner. She works relationally to support clients with a history of childhood trauma and plans to continue her professional training in the field of psychology. She holds pride around how her own early experiences bring strength, authenticity and connection to her work (and entire life) and is fiercely passionate about bridging the gap between therapist and therapee - believing that both are equally human.