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El. knyga: Troubleshooting Relationships on the Autism Spectrum: A User's Guide to Resolving Relationship Problems

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  • Formatas: PDF+DRM
  • Išleidimo metai: 28-Aug-2013
  • Leidėjas: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • Kalba: eng
  • ISBN-13: 9780857008084
  • Formatas: PDF+DRM
  • Išleidimo metai: 28-Aug-2013
  • Leidėjas: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • Kalba: eng
  • ISBN-13: 9780857008084

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Standard relationship advice often falls flat for people on the autism spectrum, assuming that emotional needs and their articulations are easily accessible. Stanford, a neurotypical (NT) person married over 20 years to a person with an autism spectrum disorder (ASD), addresses relationships beginning from the characteristic ASD complaint that "there are too many variables" in this troubleshooting guide. Strategies are offered for systematically identifying problems and testing solutions, including starting with correct assumptions, catching problems when they're small, and simplifying when possible. Later chapters also address how to apply the troubleshooting method to bigger problems and even the decision of whether to break up. Several appendices give checklists of ways to identify and express love across the NT-ASD divide and a test for codependency. Annotation ©2013 Book News, Inc., Portland, OR (booknews.com)

Recenzijos

An excellent reference for any who would handle the dual challenges of a relationship and autism. -- Midwest Book Review "Too many variables", Ashley Stanford's husband declares about relationships in her opening paragraph of this different and very comprehensive "manual" to maintaining an autism spectrum relationship. He's so right! This guide takes those variables back to their individual components and helps the reader construct new ways to look and deal with issues that AS couples experience every single day. A thought-provoking book for couples and the professionals who work with them. -- Sarah Hendrickx, Hendrickx Associates, freelance trainer, and consultant in autism spectrum conditions, author of several books on Asperger syndrome

Daugiau informacijos

The users manual for your relationships on the Autism spectrum Scripts and scenarios for logical minds
Preface 9(7)
PART 1 THE TROUBLESHOOTING PROCESS
Chapter 1 The Foundational Principles of Troubleshooting
16(5)
Chapter 2 Why Troubleshooting Works: Top Ten Reasons
21(3)
Chapter 3 The Troubleshooting Process: Identify, Test, Evaluate
24(14)
PART 2 BEGINNING WITH CORRECT ASSUMPTIONS
Chapter 4 Fixing the Problem versus Fixing Each Other
38(13)
Chapter 5 Nearly Any Problem Can Be Resolved When It Is Small
51(10)
Chapter 6 Using Binary Thinking to Your Benefit
61(5)
Chapter 7 Assumptions: How to Be a Partner (Not a Parent)
66(4)
Chapter 8 Troubleshooting Mindblindness: The Universe is Us
70(14)
PART 3 TROUBLESHOOTING EVERYDAY PROBLEMS
Chapter 9 Troubleshooting Communication: Meta-Discussions
84(8)
Chapter 10 Troubleshooting Executive Function: Planning and Scheduling
92(8)
Chapter 11 Troubleshooting in the Bedroom: Sensual Sharing
100(12)
Chapter 12 Troubleshooting Perfection, Aiming for Imperfection, and Making Your Life Lighter
112(10)
Chapter 13 Troubleshooting Personal Attachment Style: Anxious, Avoidant, or Secure Attachment
122(9)
Chapter 14 Troubleshooting Reciprocity: Tips and Tricks to Create Support, Appreciation, and Respect in Your Relationship
131(11)
PART 4 TROUBLESHOOTING BIG PROBLEMS
Chapter 15 Troubleshooting Blame and Avoidance
142(13)
Chapter 16 Troubleshooting Monogamy and Faithfulness
155(5)
Chapter 17 Troubleshooting Existence Together: Inside the Home
160(13)
Chapter 18 Troubleshooting in the Wild: Outside the Home
173(9)
Chapter 19 Troubleshooting Obsessions and Priorities: Choosing What You Do with Your Time
182(9)
Chapter 20 Troubleshooting with Children: When a Couple Becomes a Family
191(6)
Chapter 21 Troubleshooting Meltdowns
197(8)
Chapter 22 Troubleshooting Complaints: Toxicity in Relationships
205(21)
PART 5 WHEN TROUBLESHOOTING DOES (OR DOES NOT) WORK
Chapter 23 Rebooting
226(11)
Chapter 24 When Troubleshooting Does Not Work: Other Problem-Solving Methodologies
237(18)
Chapter 25 Troubleshooting Whether to Stay or Go: The Decision Process
255(8)
Chapter 26 When It Works: Identifying and Celebrating Improvements
263(12)
References 275(1)
Appendix A How to Love 276(2)
Appendix B Signals of Love 278(2)
Appendix C Test for Co-Dependency in ASD-Linked Relationships 280(3)
Index 283
Ashley Stanford has worked as a technical writer for 17 years and is the CEO of a successful computer software company. She is the author of Asperger Syndrome and Long-Term Relationships and Business for Aspies, also published by Jessica Kingsley Publishers. She lives with her husband, who is on the autism spectrum, in Berkeley, California.