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Women and Kink: Relationships, Reasons, and Stories [Minkštas viršelis]

3.67/5 (51 ratings by Goodreads)
  • Formatas: Paperback / softback, 246 pages, aukštis x plotis: 229x152 mm, weight: 349 g
  • Išleidimo metai: 20-Jul-2021
  • Leidėjas: Routledge
  • ISBN-10: 0367187736
  • ISBN-13: 9780367187736
Kitos knygos pagal šią temą:
  • Formatas: Paperback / softback, 246 pages, aukštis x plotis: 229x152 mm, weight: 349 g
  • Išleidimo metai: 20-Jul-2021
  • Leidėjas: Routledge
  • ISBN-10: 0367187736
  • ISBN-13: 9780367187736
Kitos knygos pagal šią temą:
"Based on original research from nearly 1,600 women from the kink community, this book takes you on a journey into the motivations, meanings, and benefits of kink, in these women's own words. By exploring personal stories of love, alternative sexualities, and reasons for participating in the 'unconventional', the book supports and empowers each reader to build a relationship and life that best suits their needs. It is also an illuminating resource for sex therapists, counselors, and other mental health professionals interested in developing a kink-affirmative practice"--

Based on original research from nearly 1,600 women from the kink community, this book takes you on a journey into the motivations, meanings, and benefits of kink, in these women’s own words.



Based on original research from nearly 1,600 women from the kink community, this book takes you on a journey into the motivations, meanings, and benefits of kink, in these women’s own words.

Women and Kink

presents a diverse range of personal and intimate stories about life, love, relationships, kink, sex, self-discovery, growth, resilience, community, and more. The book offers insight into the breadth of the kink community, with chapters discussing different aspects of kink and forms of engagement, both individually and within relationships. Filled throughout with personal vignettes and examples, the authors provide commentary, reflection questions, and thought-provoking considerations to readers who are looking to explore a new area of their life.

By exploring personal stories of love, alternative sexualities, and reasons for participating in the "unconventional," the book supports and empowers each reader to build a relationship and life that best suits their needs. It is also an illuminating resource for sex therapists, counselors, and other mental health professionals interested in developing a kink-affirmative practice.

Recenzijos

"For how easy this book is to read, the density of information is surprising. Reading this book is like eating something completely delicious and later realizing that it was half cauliflower. Rehor and Schiffman use such delightful candor and direct language to explain their research that readers might not even notice they are reading a methods section until they are deep into it. With this auspicious beginning, Women and Kink delivers the authors original data supported with others research in a writing style so smooth that it is lovely to read. Women and Kink covers various aspects of kink from sex, pain, the mind, spirituality, and safety to consent, exhibitionism, role, play, fetishes, and money. Together, Rehor and Schiffman explore the ways in which women engage in kink, and a wide range of respondents relationship statuses and reasons for participating in kink. Fascinating for academic and popular interest readers, Women and Kink makes a significant contribution to our understandings about what women think about kink, and how they feel about and practice kink over time all in a refreshingly straightforward read." Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, author of The Polyamorists Next Door, Stories from the Polycule, When Someone you Love is Polyamorous, and Children in Polyamorous Families.

"This book contributes to the literature by discussing interesting and groundbreaking research on kink in WOMEN, an understudied population. It provides a window into a world that is often misunderstood and mischaracterized. This is a great read for any therapist by illuminating the experiences and giving voice to the women who engage in kink behaviors." Rose Hartzell-Cushanick, PhD, EdS, LMFT, AASECT-certified sex therapist supervisor at San Diego Sexual Medicine and adjunct professor at San Diego State University.

"Jennifer! Julia! A heartfelt thanks for making these courageous retellings available for learning, growth and enjoyment. May this groundbreaking work lead the way for people everywhere to speak to their concerns, desires, turn-ons, and ways of life in ways that affirm them and help them make sense of their relationships, their communities and their world. Thank you both for this precious gift of a book." Mike Giancola, LMFT, licensed marriage and family therapist focusing on sexual health, San Diego, California. "For how easy this book is to read, the density of information is surprising. Reading this book is like eating something completely delicious and later realizing that it was half cauliflower. Rehor and Schiffman use such delightful candor and direct language to explain their research that readers might not even notice they are reading a methods section until they are deep into it. With this auspicious beginning, Women and Kink delivers the authors original data supported with others research in a writing style so smooth that it is lovely to read. Women and Kink covers various aspects of kink from sex, pain, the mind, spirituality, and safety to consent, exhibitionism, role play, fetishes, and money. Together, Rehor and Schiffman explore the ways in which women engage in kink, and a wide range of respondents relationship statuses and reasons for participating in kink. Fascinating for academic and popular interest readers, Women and Kink makes a significant contribution to our understandings about what women think about kink, and how they feel about and practice kink over timeall in a refreshingly straightforward read." Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, author of The Polyamorists Next Door, Stories from the Polycule, When Someone You Love is Polyamorous, and Children in Polyamorous Families

"This book contributes to the literature by discussing interesting and groundbreaking research on kink in WOMEN, an understudied population. It provides a window into a world that is often misunderstood and mischaracterized. This is a great read for any therapist by illuminating the experiences and giving voice to the women who engage in kink behaviors." Rose Hartzell-Cushanick, PhD, EdS, LMFT, AASECT-certified Sex Therapist Supervisor at San Diego Sexual Medicine and Adjunct Professor at San Diego State University, CA, USA

"Jennifer! Julia! A heartfelt thanks for making these courageous retellings available for learning, growth and enjoyment. May this groundbreaking work lead the way for people everywhere to speak to their concerns, desires, turn-ons, and ways of life in ways that affirm them and help them make sense of their relationships, their communities and their world. Thank you both for this precious gift of a book." Mike Giancola, LMFT, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist focusing on sexual health, San Diego, CA, USA

Authors xii
Acknowledgments xv
1 Introduction
1(13)
The Research
2(1)
Background
2(3)
Methods
5(1)
Results
6(3)
Comments about Aspects of and Engagement with Kink
9(1)
Comments about Relationship Status
10(1)
Comments about Reasons for Participating
10(1)
Comments about Stories
11(1)
Discussion
11(1)
Definitions
11(1)
Points of Interest
12(1)
Notes
13(1)
2 Aspects Of Kink
14(52)
Kink and Sex
15(6)
Kink and Pain
21(3)
Kink and the Mind
24(3)
Kink and Spirituality
27(1)
Kink and Community
28(7)
Kink and Safety
35(3)
Kink and Consent
38(3)
Kink and Exhibitionism/Voyeurism
41(7)
Kink and Role Play
48(4)
Kink and Fetish
52(8)
Kink and Money
60(4)
What Does This Mean?
64(1)
Notes
65(1)
3 Engagement With Kink
66(19)
Kink as (Mostly) Fantasy
67(1)
New to Kink
68(2)
Kink as Private
70(2)
I'm Not Kinky!
72(1)
Kink is beyond Novelty
73(2)
Self-Identity Includes Kink
75(5)
Kink over Time
80(3)
What Does This Mean?
83(2)
4 Relationship Status
85(32)
Relationships without Formal Commitments
87(4)
Power-Dynamic Relationships
91(6)
Non-Monogamy: Relationships with More Than One Partner
97(7)
On the Topic of Marriage
104(9)
Additional Chosen Families
113(2)
What Does This Mean?
115(2)
5 Reasons For Participating In Kink
117(29)
Personal Reasons
119(10)
Relational Reasons
129(8)
Sexual Reasons
137(7)
What Does This Mean?
144(2)
6 Stories
146(29)
Story #1
147(2)
Story #2
149(2)
Story #3
151(3)
Story #4
154(1)
Story #5
155(1)
Story #6
156(3)
Story #7
159(2)
Story #8
161(2)
Story #9
163(2)
Story #10
165(9)
What Does It All Mean?
174(1)
7 Conclusion
175(8)
The Problem with Labels
176(2)
The Joys with Research
178(3)
Sample Size
181(1)
Final Thoughts
181(1)
Note
182(1)
Appendix A The Survey 183(18)
Appendix B Additional Sensual, Erotic, and Sexual Behaviors 201(5)
Appendix C Exhibitionistic Behaviors 206(6)
Appendix D Additional Forms of Erotica 212(2)
Appendix E Additional Role-Play Scenarios 214(7)
Appendix F Additional Fetishes 221(9)
Resources 230(2)
References 232(2)
Index 234
Jennifer Rehor is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, and Clinical Supervisor. She is the owner and founder of Affirming Therapy Center (ATC) in San Diego, CA, USA.

Julia Schiffman is an Associate Clinical Social Worker, Sex Educator, and Community Activist. She specializes in sex therapy, and she works with LGBTQ couples and non-monogamous/polyamorous families in her San Diego, California, CA, USA, private practice.