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Connecting with Kids Through Stories: Using Narratives to Facilitate Attachment in Adopted Children 2nd Revised edition [Minkštas viršelis]

4.14/5 (35 ratings by Goodreads)
  • Formatas: Paperback / softback, 240 pages, aukštis x plotis x storis: 229x153x96 mm, weight: 362 g, 2 figures, 1 table
  • Išleidimo metai: 15-Dec-2011
  • Leidėjas: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • ISBN-10: 1849058695
  • ISBN-13: 9781849058698
Kitos knygos pagal šią temą:
  • Formatas: Paperback / softback, 240 pages, aukštis x plotis x storis: 229x153x96 mm, weight: 362 g, 2 figures, 1 table
  • Išleidimo metai: 15-Dec-2011
  • Leidėjas: Jessica Kingsley Publishers
  • ISBN-10: 1849058695
  • ISBN-13: 9781849058698
Kitos knygos pagal šią temą:
Psychologists and marriage and family therapists Lacher et al., who are all based at the Family Attachment and Counseling Center in Minnesota, guide parents and thier therapists in the process of creating therapeutic stories with their adopted children. The process is meant to help deal with difficult and complex issues through family attachment and narrative therapy and address behavioral problems caused by traumatic life experiences, insecure attachment, and developmental issues. They describe the formation of the child's internal working model in response to attachment experiences, life events, and course of development; ways to discover the child's unique model and put together the meaning of behavior; the neuroscience of narrative therapy; comparisons of family attachment narrative therapy with other narrative techniques; the process of telling narratives, with clinical examples illustrating different setting choices, props, perspective, and protagonists; and the categories of parent narrative: claiming, trauma, developmental, and successful child. This edition includes updated research on attachment, trauma, and development, a new chapter on parental attunement and regulation, and a new chapter with full-length samples of the four narrative types. Annotation ©2012 Book News, Inc., Portland, OR (booknews.com)

Recenzijos

Overall, I found this book to be an interesting and stimulating read. The early chapters refreshed my knowledge and understanding of attachment difficulties, particularly as they relate to adopted children. I found the Family Attachment Narrative Therapy approach and the case examples given fascinating and was pleased that parents were of key importance in developing their own narratives... I would recommend this book both to professionals working with adoptive families, to parents of adopted children and to those with an interest in this area or in therapeutic story telling. -- Debate This book is a welcome addition to the resources available to not only adoptive parents but also social workers in practice with children and young people with attachment issues. -- Rostrum This book is a discussion and guide on the use of narrative to help children and parents work through difficult behaviour and attachment issues. But it is also much more... This book's emphasis on helping parents do the therapeutic work of building the family as a safe healing space is spot on. -- Children & Young People Now This book provides a very valuable, innovative resource for adoptive families supporting children with complex, traumatic early life histories. The focus is on empowering adoptive families to support their children with complex, traumatic early life stories. The focus is on empowering adoptive families to support their children, by giving them a thorough understanding of how early life history will affect each child's internal working model... I found this a very exciting, meaningful book. It provides clarity and recognition of the challenges and issues for adopted children with complex, traumatic early life histories. -- Lapidus Journal Stories are the currency of life. "Connecting with Kids Through Stories: Using Narratives to Facilitate Attachement in Adopted Children" discusses the importance of stories in forming bonds with adopted children, to children who may not have had the easiest life coming into a caring parent's care.... A strong pick for parenting collections, especially those with a focus on adoption. -- The Midwest Book Review This is a clear, practical, relevant and optimistic book that gives adoptive parents a deeper insight into the lives of their children, and an effective intervention made all the more attractive because it is based on the universally familiar and compelling business of telling stories about lifes most significant emotional experiences. -- David Howe, Professor Emeritus, School of Social Work and Psychology, University of East Anglia, UK This is a wonderful book that goes to the heart of the matter in healing traumatized adoptees. If adopted kids are to grow and thrive in their adoptive family, the how and why of the arrival into the forever home must be told. Using the context of storytelling to tell the often painful tale is brilliant - even challenging and older children will accept a story. I particularly like the abundant examples of stories, the words of encouragement to parents to get started, the use of narratives to cover all aspects of the aftermath of trauma, the overview of how trauma leaves a child afflicted and the overriding message that underneath all the chaotic behavior is a child desperately trying to tell us the meaning of his or her experiences. Once attune to this meaning, each member of the family can connect. Thus, the meaning of being a part of a healthy family emerges for the adoptee, brothers, sisters and parents. -- Arleta James, therapist, Attachment and Bonding Center of Ohio, USA

Daugiau informacijos

How to create therapeutic stories that improve relationships, heal past trauma, and change problem behaviour
Legacy of an Adopted Child 9(2)
Acknowledgements 11(2)
Introduction 13(3)
Note 16(1)
Chapter 1 The Internal Working Model
17(23)
...and so it begins...the formation of the internal working model
18(2)
Attachment relationships
20(1)
The development of attachment
20(4)
The importance of attachment relationships
24(1)
The transmission of attachment
25(2)
Life events
27(2)
Complex trauma
29(1)
The effects of trauma
30(3)
Development
33(3)
Meanings (or "peanut butter and a crib")
36(3)
Summary
39(1)
Chapter 2 Putting the Pieces Together: Discovering the Child's Model
40(17)
The search
43(12)
Discovery
55(1)
Summary
56(1)
Chapter 3 Narratives That Bond, Heal, and Teach
57(16)
Section 1 How Narratives Work
58(5)
Neuroscience of narratives
59(1)
How stories can be therapy
60(2)
Summary
62(1)
Section 2 Constructing and Telling Stories
63(10)
The setting for Family Attachment Narrative Therapy
63(2)
The perspective
65(1)
The hero
66(1)
The message
67(2)
Incorporating props in the telling
69(1)
Additional thoughts
70(1)
Summary
71(2)
Chapter 4 Parental Attunement and Regulation
73(23)
How attunement and regulation enhance or alter development
75(1)
Section 1 How to Attune to your Child
76(9)
Components of attunement
79(2)
Factors affecting attunement
81(4)
Section 2 Regulation---Helping your Child to Calm
85(11)
Factors affecting regulation
86(4)
Techniques to enhance attachment and increase regulation
90(5)
Summary
95(1)
Chapter 5 Claiming Narratives
96(17)
Section 1 The purpose of Claiming Narratives
97(7)
When parents find it difficult to bond
97(1)
When the child finds it difficult to trust
98(1)
Shifting the child's internal working model
99(1)
Establishing birth order
100(1)
Claiming the extended family
101(1)
Passing on the family traditions, history, and rituals
102(1)
Other issues
102(1)
Summary
103(1)
Section 2 Telling Claiming Narratives
104(9)
If you had been...
104(5)
Problem-solving tips
109(3)
Summary
112(1)
Chapter 6 Trauma Narratives
113(18)
Section 1 The purpose of Trauma Narratives
113(4)
Healing the pain of trauma
114(1)
Shifting the child's internal working model
115(1)
Creating understanding and empathy
115(2)
Summary
117(1)
Section 2 Telling Trauma Narratives
117(14)
When to seek professional help
125(3)
Problem-solving tips
128(2)
Summary
130(1)
Chapter 7 Developmental Narratives
131(18)
Section 1 The Purpose of Developmental Narratives
131(8)
Facilitating cognitive development
132(2)
Facilitating emotional development
134(1)
Building relationships
135(1)
Remedial skill building
136(2)
Enhancing development
138(1)
Summary
138(1)
Section 2 Telling Developmental Narratives
139(10)
When you were a two-year-old you would have...
140(6)
Problem-solving tips
146(1)
Summary
147(2)
Chapter 8 Successful Child Narratives
149(18)
Section 1 The Purpose of Successful Child Narratives
150(4)
Teaching children values
150(1)
Reinforcing cause and effect thinking
151(1)
Presenting alternative behaviors
151(2)
Explaining the basics of how to do life
153(1)
Summary
154(1)
Section 2 Telling Successful Child Narratives
154(13)
The meaning of behavior
155(3)
Changing behaviors with narratives
158(3)
Teaching behavior with narratives
161(4)
Problem-solving tips
165(1)
Summary
166(1)
Chapter 9 Stories, Stories, and More Stories
167(45)
Claiming narrative example
168(4)
Trauma narrative example
172(3)
Another trauma narrative
175(3)
Trauma narrative example: For older adopted children
178(3)
Trauma narrative example: For an internationally adopted child
181(6)
Developmental narrative example: How children learn secure base behaviors
187(1)
Developmental narrative example: How children learn to regulate anger and frustration
188(2)
Successful child narrative example
190(2)
Successful child narrative: Telling the truth
192(2)
Trauma/successful child narrative: How to move forward
194(1)
"Rosebud"
194(7)
Gaye Guyton
Trauma/successful child narrative: Lying and stealing
201(1)
Developmental/successful child narrative: Learning how to be a friend
202(2)
Successful child narrative: Learning to trust
204(1)
"Mistfire"
204(4)
Donna Oehrig
Summary
208(1)
Conclusion
209(3)
A final word
210(2)
Appendix A EMDR 212(1)
Appendix B Story Construction Guide 213(2)
References 215(8)
Resources and Further Reading 223(9)
Subject Index 232(5)
Author Index 237
The authors are all based at the Family Attachment and Counseling Center, Minnesota, USA. Denise B. Lacher is a psychologist who specializes in treating children who have experienced maltreatment in early life. Todd Nichols is Executive Director. He is co-recipient of the 2008 Pro Humanitate Award issued by the Center for Child Welfare Policy and sole recipient of the 2007 New Horizons Award issued by the Association for Treatment and Training in the Attachment of Children. Melissa Nichols is a marriage and family therapist who specializes in treating children who have experienced abandonment, neglect, and abuse early in life. Joanne C. May is a licensed psychologist and marriage and family therapist and founder of the Family Attachment and Counseling Center. She has over 50 years' experience working with families, children and adolescents.